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Feb 20Liked by Kristin Hatcher, Margo Aaron

I'm about to be 44 and I HATE YOU AND I LOVE YOU BOTH!!!!! πŸ˜‚β€οΈ

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lol are you really? Bring on the love/hate anytime, Christian!

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Feb 21Liked by Kristin Hatcher, Margo Aaron

I needed to read this today, thank you. I’m 45 and just had the spin out of contemplating if I should keep pursuing my creative dreams after a decade of feeling β€˜is this worth it’. Yeah, yeah it is. This post shifted my perspective which once again I needed. πŸ’–

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Thank you for taking the time to say so, Jennifer <3

You're not alone in the spinout. And yeah, yeah it is. So glad you're with us.

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Feb 20Liked by Kristin Hatcher, Margo Aaron

This is brilliant writing because it articulates the stressful journey of most creatives now. The rise of the entrepreneurβ€”no, FREELANCER, hoping to be picked. The pressure to develop massive followings and make a fortune selling digital courses… I love your breakdown of the sweaty scramble lol to find The One Thing that’ll lead to internet fame and fortune. The antidote you present is brilliant and grounded and true.

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Yes, the pressure and stress. And where is it coming from? Out there. What's coming from *in here*? That's what we're interested in exploring. Always appreciate your perspective, Courtney!

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Feb 20Liked by Kristin Hatcher, Margo Aaron

I don’t think wanting to do what you love and the money coming from it is a bad thing. Entrepreneurship gets a bad rap sometimes. The entrepreneurial journey *is* a creative one. Money, follows, clients etc are the bi-products

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Totally agree! This this this: "The entrepreneurial journey *is* a creative one."

The challenge is when we believe the only justification for doing a project is making money. We don't need validation -- financial or otherwise -- to do the work we care about.

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β€œYou contain multitudes, baby” YES! Love this reminder, always. Liz Gilbert said something similar in Big Magic… like, you don’t (and maybe shouldn’t) quit your job to be a writer. Let it stand on its own without the weight of making a living!

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πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ yes! I remember that. Don't put that weight on the creative process. let it go where it wants to go. Kristin and I used to joke (but not joke) that Writing in Community is where you went to write your book, Copy Workshop is where you went to learn to sell it. I believe that's still true - the processes are different and unconnected. And when you combine the two, the work suffers.

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